Abusive ex boyfriend?

i am 21 yrs old and just got otta a bad realationship . my ex boyfriend bit me all over my arms bcuz i slapped him in the face for trying to have sex with me while i was crying becuz he broke up with me.........hes kinda sick in the head well my mom was watching from the window i got outta the car finally and was acting like i was gonna throw my coffee on him but he kicked it outta my hands then my mom called the cops the cops r pressing charges .now my ex b4 that called me telling me my ex boyfriend is trying to get him to testify and tell every 1 that im crazy......y am i crazy? yea for outting up with that crap....y do abusive guys never think its there fualt...y is this my fualt he has a history of hitting me he has left bruises the size of my palm all over my legs just becuz i want to go to piolet skol he threw a lipton bottle thro my car window and sharrtered it ...what the heck is his problem? and when it comes time to go to court do u guys think he will be put away.

Abusive ex boyfriend?
Put a bullet to his head.
Reply:It might seem harsh but It's also your fault for coming back to him time after time. If you know he was abusive from the 3rd or 4rth ddate in your life, then you shouldn'jt have ever contact him or be near him. You should have gone the other way and reported to the police EARLIER. Yes, it is his problem but the only person that can really help you is you, remove yourself from the situation. No one is preventing you but your abusive boyfriend. It really goes to show how weak human nature is. Take pictures of your body right now and reported to the police. If he can get a gone and shoot you, then he'll just kill you next time. Also, move away from where you live with your mom. Go somewhere else you'll never see him again and live your normal life. Abusive guys don't know the different between right or wrong, something psychology is wrong with them and if you think you can change them, then your wrong.
Reply:You need to look at your self also ......yes get this guy put away.... but you need to ask your self why you did not leave the FIRST time he showed any aggression toward you.


No one deserves to be treated like this , but you responded to his actions with violence also (or threat of it) you just needed to get away and call the police, as for your mom


just how long did she just stand there and watch this scene unfold? Sounds like some family counseling is in order and get this guy and all other scum like him out of your lives!
Reply:um.........hes mentally crazy and he shod b put away
Reply:Possibly. Depending if he a bad record. If not he will get probation.
Reply:You know how I handle that.


I let my .45 revolver do the talking.


you should too.





*****











Ps i am abusive.
Reply:You keep saying ex-boyfriend, leave him back there! And, yes I hope he does get some kind of punishment. But then again you shouldn't have slapped him in the face either.


violence


+ violence


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= more violence =sometimes death.
Reply:You women put yourself in these bad situations and then start crying how horrible this guy is. He didn't wake up and start punching you, he work up to it. The signs were there and you allowed him to take the next step. It's your fault, because you allowed yourself to get in this bad relationship. I don't feel bad for you, you did this to yourself. You said; "Your not pressing charges the police is." first; it is the State that moves this forward.The reason the State takes over, is women like you allow these dirt bags to get away with this abuse. If they didn't take over, he would get away with it and move on to the next person. It's women like you always crying about how you are being treated then don't do anything about it. You just want somebody to feel sorry for you. I am not one of them. You are weak and stupid. If a man is hitting you and you take it, stay with him and do nothing, you deserve it. Next time stand up for yourself and stop acting like a victim, if he hits you take a bat to his head... it that simple. Stop letting others fight your battles. This is your bed that you made, now lay in it.
Reply:Hi Lisa M.





First of all ur ex boyfriend is not a tru man.





1.Man shall never hit a woman no matter how crazy or not.


2,I think this scum bag of a punk loser needs to get his sry azz in a bootcamp.....So the drill instrutor can make him feel like a srry candy azz punk as he is........
Reply:why did you go out with that baffon in the first place
Reply:hmm. history of abuse, your mother a witness to this, an ex tellinging the ex to testify of his behalf. Sweetheart go into that court, with full confidence, and don't u let him stare u down. Judge will put him away, after you tell him of all the time u took his abuse because u loved him, and hoped to help him get better, as there is mental problem with him.


He calls you craZy, Well get all those who know and don't like him, to testiy, that he's the crazy one.





Do you have the guts, or do you care about your selfrespect encough to go throught then only take action. Otherwise any half heart action is just gona make him more angry and crazy.





If not, just say sorry to the guy, and just be glad he is breakingup with you. He could have stayed with you and u would suffer abuse all your life. GET OUT, GET TOUGH AND GET A GOOD EDUCATION!
Reply:i feel so terribly sorry for you.... its so upsettin to even read... you must hav been through hell... for him, i can only put it in simple words, Drag him to Jail, Court, Mental Hospital.. wherever possible, and rather to all of the above.. If u let him go, then i would say u dont respect yourself, and you will put another one in your shoes soon.. He needs some brains, and only Law can put it in his empty head... Girl stand up and fight. Show him that you were not born to take his ****. For any emotional support, ever, pl do get back...


Once you teach him good lessons, it time to focus on u then... but first make sure he reaches where he deserves to be...





do take good care of yourself..





god bless you.
Reply:make sure you have your Mom take pictures of all the marks on you so you have evidence and even go to the doctor and get them to report it if need be. Atleast you will have witnesses. Staying calm during the hearing is you best bet. You are the victim here and act the part. Don't give the judge any reason to feel you are partially at fault here. Do not act out of anger. Just stay calm and answer his questions.
Reply:First, if he did that before, like you said, there is a 'history of him hitting you' my god what else do you need? why are you going back with him? does anybody really need to tell you what to do? c'mon! you are 21 not 14 girl! and if we advise you to do something.....are you really gonna do it? or CAN do it? maybe the one that needs to be put away... in counseling... its you, don't get me wrong, I mean...your self-esteem, if you work on it ( with help) you are going to start seeing things more clearly BY YOURSELF, that's the best way of fixing things, and keep them that way, a learning experience that will stay with you forever. Good luck girl, and take care.
Reply:Don't waist another minute on this crap. Go to court, let the law work but move on. Find someone worth your time and concentrate on that relationship. Your re-living the past.......stop! Let it be the mistake it is and learn from it but don't live in it!
Reply:Why do you need to let guys treat you like dirt. Get some relationship counseling and stay away from that guy.
Reply:If he is your Ex that is the way he should stay.





This means that you do not have any more contact with him.





If he has forced you to have sex against your will that is rape and needed to be reported to the police at the time it occurred (immediately). A restraining order would be appropriate.
Reply:Girl, you can Do better than that... much better, try, try, try !!!! lots of guys out there don't get tied down with just one, your're way to young for that. TRUST ME....BEEN THERE....DONE THAT
Reply:We can only hope he is put away to get some mental help . BUT with the court system today you have a 50/50 chance of him going to jail . The reason he says it is your fault is he has a mental problem and nothing that happens to him is his fault no matter who or what did it . I have know allot of theses guys and it always someone else who did it to them . When you get to court be honest and when you have to look at him look him in the eye do not turn away . You have to show that you are in control of your life now not him . You can do it just believe in yourself as much as we do . Go into that court room and take back your life from him and walk out a stronger woman .
Reply:if its the cops that want to prosecute then at his age he probably wont go to prison. But he will almost certainly get a restraining order.